I watched this video and began to reflect on the power of words. It is very uplifting when someone, especially a sister, God-sister, or sister-friend speaks words that illuminate love. I have two sisters, both older than me; and my father has two daughters, also my sisters. I wanted more love from them as we grew older, but you cannot give something that is not owned. They needed love too. My parents were young when they started a family and could only give what was passed down to them. They loved us; but for me there was always something missing. I had to grow into love, it took a lot of hurt to get there; and there is still lots to do. I love my sisters, blood and others too.
I also have sister-friends and a God-sister. I cherish all of these relationships. Our gatherings are always positive and kindred. I know they are always there for me, as I am them. I wonder what it would be like if my Sister Net was spread wider? It appears as though many women have a few special friends, who are like sisters, but know many women with whom love is not shown. Some have sisters and are not as close as they could be. Call it sibling rivalry or sister-hate. It is real, although it serves no purpose.
It would be nice if women shared more sister love. Imagine how beautiful our lives would be if we did. Share words that uplift, but not tear down. Omit shade and embrace the positive. Let your guards down long enough to see the beauty in each other. Sometimes words hurt, regardless of the intent. Silence is even worse when you may need to hear something to give you confidence and courage.
It can start with you, a smile will do. A compliment or reiteration of something positive the other woman already knows. Sister-love is powerful. Sister-love is needed. Sister-love breeds love.
I love my mother. She had a wealth of knowledge and because of my lack of what I thought was love, what she had to share was missed. I can’t bring her back, but do remember her words, and they were love. Show someone love today. Embrace your sister(s) or sister friends. Nothing is as strong as love and it should be cherished.
Listen to Maya share about love. Love a sister today. Show some sister love, because it matters to you and them.
Peace and Love,
Grace Sowtrue
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